It is important to not let the conditions of your life dictate your life.  In other words, contrary to public belief, your past does not predict your future or more properly said, your past does not make your future certain.

Certainly your past, without change in the present, could accurately predict your future.  Yet the key is this NOW moment, where infinite possibilities exist.

Do not deny the facts of your life, simply deny they have any power over your great being, over your life.  Make the choice to sever the connection, to break the mold.  Claim it as yours now!

And as if by magic, everything will become clear — what are the things that need to change in the present to unleash yourself from the past.  Focus on present change and there is no power in those past memories.  You are indeed much greater than that!